UPDATE: Please help me win a contest on Oomph.net
Update: I've dropped down to fifth place! :( I'll be gone for the next week on my MUCH-needed annual vacation. Rough year -- my dad had heart surgery, Mom has chronic pain, I helped take care of hubby's grandma who had lymphoma...she eventually succumbed to it and amidst the grief, dissolving her estate has been extremely emotional and upsetting, I encouraged a family member abusing drugs to get help, FIL remarried a mentally unstable woman... Oh, gosh, I need to get away...but I don't want to give up on this contest! If you haven't joined Oomph yet, PLEASE help me win this contest by joining with my link! They give you a free mood ring! They're a legit site owned by the Oxygen Network, which is I think in part owned by Oprah, and I've been there for over a month and they do NOT spam you at all. Please help me out here -- thanks!! And either way -- see y'all back in a week!
If you could sign up at Oomph.net with my link, it would give me a contest entry, and I'd really appreciate it! It's a free site that has blogs and message boards and is focused on women but men are also welcome to join. Thanks sooooo much!

Signed up for you Becky!
Thanks so much, Mary!